tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4457213250609451127.post5488985526676759830..comments2024-03-28T04:23:37.090-05:00Comments on KATHY'S CROCHET CABIN: The end of 2016Kathyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03066415274248650282noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4457213250609451127.post-18361732050967553662017-01-03T18:58:26.409-06:002017-01-03T18:58:26.409-06:00Thank you so much Jan for taking the time to post ...Thank you so much Jan for taking the time to post this. Everything you said was what I was feeling and thinking. Everything you have been through has made you a very special person. Your words really touched my heart, I shed a few tears. Prayers to you! One day at a time.Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03066415274248650282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4457213250609451127.post-28778738282032490542017-01-03T15:34:05.571-06:002017-01-03T15:34:05.571-06:00It gets easier, take each day as it comes. There i...It gets easier, take each day as it comes. There is no right or wrong way to grieve or for how long it takes. It took me a while to find myself and occasionally I do slip. I allow myself these little slips, then I give myself a good talking to and get back into living my life. Do it at your pace, don't let anyone rush you. I became a volunteer at our local information centre and also at an adult literacy centre. It was way out of my comfort zone and I admitted that it was worrying and scary. I couldn't craft for a couple of years, then I met a lady who encouraged me to get back into it. I thought of Mik and what he would think of me doing all this without him and you know what, I know he would be proud of me. You are strong. The only person you have to be honest with is yourself. Never apologise. Accept help when needed - this is something I found so hard to do! Be kind to yourself. Don't be afraid, fear held me back from so much. Even now, 10 years later I sometimes succumb to it over the littlest of things. But then I look back and see what I have done, take a deep breath and tell myself I can do it. You will get there, you will have more light than dark in your life. <br /><br />Blessings<br /><br />Janjanjanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04386656208270221942noreply@blogger.com